If you added the WPML microwidget in your header in Theme Options -> Top Bar & Header -> Microwidgets, it’s time to set its appearance.
To do so, please go to Theme Options -> WPML Flags
Set it and click the link to go further:
You will be taken to the WPML’s settings – Please enable this option:
Then click the Customize button that will appear.
After that, you will see the options of the switcher, and will be able to set it as you desire: